One Night on the Island

One Night on the Island

Josie Silver




For the completely marvellous Katy Loftus





Cleo





28 September


London


FINDING MY FLAMINGO


‘You genuinely want to send me to a remote island to marry myself?’

A warm flush creeps up my neck as I sit across the desk from Ali, my terrifyingly enigmatic boss at Women Today. She’s asked me to do some fairly out-there things over the years but this one tops the lot.

‘It’s not legally binding,’ she says, as if that makes it better.

‘Look.’ I pinch the bridge of my nose, choosing my words carefully. ‘It’s one thing for an Alister to declare she’s “self-coupling” for an interview in Vogue, Ali. It’s altogether different for an almost-thirty-year-old dating columnist to claim she’s doing it too.’

I stumble as I say my age; the number sticks like glue in my mouth. Thirty felt like just another year until I was twenty-nine and three-quarters, but now that my landmark birthday is a few weeks away, I’ve started to experience all kinds of unexpected and unwelcome anxieties. I was – I am – determined not to make a big drama out of it, but with every passing day it’s as if someone adds an extra weight on to my shoulders – one of those mini cast-iron ones you get with old-fashioned kitchen scales. I’m disappearing under tiny, invisible kitchen weights and Ali has noticed my diminishment because Ali notices everything. She didn’t get to be the editor of one of the UK’s leading online lifestyle magazines by resting on her laurels; her meteoric rise is well documented in the industry with both green-eyed envy and huge respect. I consider myself lucky to work for her; I’d even go so far as to count her as a friend. A laser-eyed, ball-of-energy friend who terrifies me and makes me do things I don’t want to. Such as decamping to a remote Irish island I’ve never heard of to marry myself.

‘Honestly, Clee, I came across that old Emma Watson interview again over the weekend and all I could think about was you.’ She gets up from her chair to pace, too excited by her own ideas to sit. ‘A string of failed dating disasters, about to turn thirty –’ she ticks the list off on her fingers as she speaks – ‘trying to define her place in the world as a single woman, pressured by the media and the expectations of others.’

‘I feel sick with sorrow for her, I really do,’ I say. ‘It must be a shocker having to snog R-Patz for a living.’ He made a lasting impression on teenage me, all that immortal glittering. Is it any wonder I’ve struggled to find love after being set such unrealistic expectations? There’s a whole other column for another day.

‘She’s never had to snog R-Patz. Don’t minimize Emma’s contribution to make yourself feel better, you know I’m on to something here.’

I pick at a loose thread on the arm of the office chair. ‘It’s not strictly fair to say I’ve had a string of dating disasters. It is my job.’

‘I know, I know. We pay you to swipe right and wear your big, beautiful heart on your sleeve. We love you for your optimism and your faith in finding your flamingo.’

‘Finding My Flamingo’ is the name of my online column, so called because flamingos mate for life. We experimented with lines about other animals that mate for life too, but ‘Finding My Gibbon’ suggested red bums and picking each other’s ears, and ‘Finding My Beaver’ lowered the tone in a most unstylish way. ‘Finding My Flamingo’ felt appropriate, but as time has gone on I’ve become somewhat less invested, in no small part because I’ve been gifted so much flamingo-related shite that I could open a flamingo-related shite shop.

‘Look, Clee, you need to do something to mark turning thirty. It’s a seismic moment in a woman’s life.’ Ali pauses in that specific way she does when something bad is coming next. ‘It’s this or the tattoo.’

I sigh; I really should have seen that coming. The tattoo has become a bit of an in-joke at team meetings. Any time I’m struggling for column content, someone gives me the side-eye and then suggests I get a flamingo inked indelibly on my skin, preferably in a place it can’t easily be concealed.

‘Okay. Look, I always kind of liked what Emma said about self-coupling,’ I say cautiously. ‘I get it. She was saying she’s enough already, alone but not lonely.’

Ali nods. She doesn’t interrupt me; I know she’s hoping I’m going to talk myself into it. She’s excellent at deploying silence to get what she wants.

‘She’s a vibrant, independent woman who understands that there’s more than one way to achieve a fulfilled life,’ I say. ‘She isn’t a failure because she doesn’t have a partner and a hoard of kids, and she wouldn’t let the fact that both of her sisters and her brother are married with their own broods pressure her, or feel forced to defend her singledom at every family gathering, even if she is drowning in an ocean of wedding and baby shower invitations – I mean, I’m genuinely happy for them all but do they really need to wave it in my face in gold italics, for God’s sake?’

I stop, realizing my voice had grown loud and somewhere in there I’d switched from talking about Emma Watson to talking about myself. Besides, it was unfair of me to include my brother, Tom, in my list of grievances – he’s the only member of my family who never mentions my waning egg supply or lack of a significant other. Of my three siblings, he’s furthest in age from me, seven years to be precise, yet we’re closest in every other way. It’d be easy to cast him as a father figure in my life, given that I was a baby when our father died, but Tom was the one slipping teen-me an illicit cigarette under the table and covering for me when I stayed out late at night. We both take after my dad, apparently – dark hair and eyes full of trouble, if Mum is to be believed.

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