Piecing Me Together(13)
Mr. Franklin frowns. “That’s all you have to say?”
Sam points to my flash cards. “We have a test on Friday. I have to study.”
Mr. Franklin closes the door and walks away. I hear him say, “She’s doing good. Of course she misses you, but she’s a teenager. She doesn’t know how to show it.”
“Sorry about that,” Sam says.
“It’s okay,” I say. “You know, you could have talked as long as you wanted.”
“I didn’t have much to say anyway,” Sam tells me. “She’ll call again, probably next month for my birthday.”
“Next month?” I don’t mean to sound so shocked, but who only talks to their mom once a month?
“Yeah, well, that’s what happens when you tell your child you don’t want to be a mom anymore and drop her off at her grandparents’ house.”
Sam can tell I’m thinking awful things.
She says, “It’s better for me here. My mom really can’t handle being a mother.” She tucks her feet under herself.
Instead of studying, we talk about our fathers: hers lives in Eugene and is married, with a son. We talk about Sam’s older brother, how he’s in the army and how she misses him and prays for him every night. We talk about how I don’t have any siblings but have always wanted one.
Sam’s cat is at the door, begging to come in. She opens the door. “Come in, Misty. Come on.” Sam picks Misty up, running her fingers through her body of black fur. “So, tell me, how do you survive at St. Francis?” Misty fidgets in Sam’s arms, so Sam lets her down. “Everyone is so—I don’t know, not stuck-up. People are actually mostly nice there, but there’s this, this . . . I don’t know. I mean, my other school barely had any electives. St. Francis has a cooking class, a computer game design class, and a club for ballroom dancing. It’s kind of, I don’t know, weird. I’m not used to—”
“Having so many options?” I ask.
“Yeah. I was telling my brother how I could have taken Chinese or German but that I decided to stick with Spanish, and he couldn’t believe it.” Sam plays with her hair, gathering it all to one side and stroking it, then twisting it up in a sloppy bun. It falls out immediately, and she does it again. She tells me how her brother had it so much worse than she did because he had to be the parent. “When I tell him about school—or even how our grandpa and grandma took me in, he sounds—I don’t know. Happy for me but also, sad. Maybe jealous.”
Misty purrs and stretches her body. She looks at me but doesn’t come close, stares for a long time, yawns, and then walks away. Sam keeps talking, yawning, too. “My brother was just so-so in school. I don’t even think my mom knew about St. Francis, but even if she did, he probably wouldn’t have gotten in,” she tells me. “Not that he’s not smart.” Sam can’t stop messing with her hair. “It’s so funny, because sometimes you wouldn’t even think we came from the same family. I don’t know how it is that my life is so different from his.” Sam stops talking, stops playing with her hair. “Sometimes I feel bad, you know?” Sam sighs. “Sorry, I’m rambling. I’m not making any sense.”
“Yes, you are. I get it. I mean, not exactly, but I know what it’s like to feel kind of guilty for being the one to get what others don’t have access to.” I am thinking about Lee Lee when I say this. “When I first started going to St. Francis, my friends would ask me to tell them what St. Francis was like. I told them about all the sports teams we have. They couldn’t believe we have a swim and lacrosse team, golf, volleyball, and soccer teams, track and field. They looked like they were in awe. But sometimes there was sadness in their eyes,” I tell Sam. “There’s also this pride they have, so I kind of feel like I can’t let them down. And sometimes it’s just all too much. So, yeah, I get feeling bad.”
Sam leans forward. “But then again I feel bad for feeling bad, if that makes any sense,” she says. “It’s kind of not fair for us to feel guilty for getting what we deserve. We work hard.”
It takes a minute for Sam’s words to sink in.
I have never thought about my deserving the good things that have happened in my life. Maybe because I know so many people who work hard but still don’t get the things they deserve, sometimes not even the things they need.
Sam picks the flash cards up and skims through them. “It’s weird, huh?”
“What?”
“Being stuck in the middle. Like, sometimes I hold back at school, you know? Like I don’t ever join in on those what-are-you-doing-this-weekend? conversations, because I know nothing I will say can compare to the weekend excursions those girls at St. Francis go on,” Sam says. “But I also don’t talk much about what I do at school with my family or with my friends who don’t go to St. Francis.”
Misty goes to the door and scratches it. Sam gets up and opens the door to let her out. “God, Jade. I don’t know how you’ve done this for two years,” she says.
“I don’t either, but now that I have you, maybe these next two years won’t be so bad.”
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Woman to Woman has one monthly meeting where we all gather together, and in between those meetings we have one-on-one outings with our mentors. Last Friday, Maxine was supposed to take me out for dinner, but at the last minute she canceled. “Something came up,” she said. And I couldn’t help but wonder if that something was Jon. But today she’s making it up, I guess. We’re going out to celebrate my birthday.