You Love Me(You #3)(16)

I don’t answer your question. It was rhetorical. All you need is for me to listen.

“I look back and I don’t know how I survived.” You breathe. You are activating the most important empathy, the empathy we have for ourselves. “My mother and I were bickering nonstop. One night I lost my temper and threw my landline at her and she had this huge welt on her forehead, so bad she had to get bangs to cover it up.” I smile but you furrow your brow and oh that’s right: violence against women is always bad, even when it’s you. “It was like Grey Gardens minus the fun…” I love you. “I guess your Cedar Cove fantasy got under my skin because no one welcomed us with open arms.” You sip your drink. “Then, one day, Melanda asked me to eat lunch together. She told me all about her fucked-up family…” Foregone conclusion. They named their child Melanda. “I told her all about mine. She said I’d fit in really well because everyone on this island is fucked up, they just like to pretend they’re not and… I dunno. Life just went on from there. Melanda was my buffer. She showed me all that graffiti at Fort Ward. And that graffiti… well, it helped. It still helps.”

“How so?”

“It’s like a conversation that’s still alive. My mom and I, we never got around to hashing it out. But I go to Fort Ward and I feel like I can still talk to her even though she’s gone. Like maybe one day she’ll appear in the sky and tell me that I’m not doomed to mess up my daughter the way she messed me up…” That is why you stay away from love and you shrug. “I dunno. I’m probably just drunk.”

You’re not drunk. You just haven’t found anyone to talk to. You look at me—you can’t believe I’m finally here—then you smirk. You can’t believe I’m still here. “Pretty bad, huh?”

“No,” I say. “Pretty human.”

I said the right thing and you laugh. “Well, I swore I’d never confuse Nomi like that. Ever.”

You’re self-conscious. You felt so safe with me that you forgot about where we are and you glance around the pub, nervous. You wipe away a half-tear and you snort. “Sometimes I think I got pregnant just to piss her off, to remind her that if you really love someone, you know, you fuck them instead of just talking on the phone…” You are a little drunk now. “And once in a while when you’re actually having sex, the condom breaks. C’est la vie.”

“I get it,” I say.

Another anxious look around the bar. “Well, the timing was tough… but yeah, I did have this hunger to make my own little family, to kind of show her up.”

“And you did.”

“Have you met my kid?”

“Oh come on,” I say. “Your kid is fucking great. You know it.”

You do know it and it’s important for you to realize that you are a good mother because once you see that, you can let me in all the way. We are still treading water, even after all you said. You’re holding back as you open up about your father and explain that he calls you a lot. “I don’t always pick up, I mean I have Nomi, I have a job, and every call ends in frustration. I’m not my mother, you know?”

“It’s fundamentally different.”

“I can’t stay on the phone with him all night. I will not do that to Nomi.”

You think all men are a threat to your relationship with your daughter and I am here to help you change. “I’m sure he understands that.”

“I just… I will not do that to my daughter. I won’t let my life ruin her life.”

You think it’s your fault that your dad is sad and I know how that feels. I push my plate to the edge of the table. You look at me. You need me. “Look,” I begin. “You can’t fix someone who doesn’t want to be happy.” Hi, Candace. “You can’t make anyone see the light if they prefer the dark.” Hi, Beck. “You try to do that, you end up on a dark road. You make bad decisions.” I really did move to Los Angeles for Amy, the stupidity. “And then you get stuck.” I have a permanent bond with Love Quinn, a son. “It’s not easy, but you have to accept that there’s no right move with your dad. You can’t save him from himself.”

The pub is clearing out and you’re rubbing your neck. “Wow,” you say. “And here I thought we’d just be gossiping about the Mothballs.”

You’re officially drunk. Floppy hands and loose lips and still I want you. You tell a long-winded go-nowhere story about an old friend in Arizona and you can’t remember her name and you say you feel like a traitor sometimes. You don’t keep in touch with anyone from your past in the desert and you came here like a phoenix from Phoenix.

“I’m the same way, Mary Kay. The ability to move on doesn’t make you a sociopath.”

You raise your glass and wink. “Let’s hope so.”

We’re closer than Closer. You tuck your chin into your hand. “Joe,” you say, pulling me in, making me think of your Murakami, all but sucked inside. “Tell me… Do you like it in our library?”

What I say right now matters and I take my time. “I like it in your library.”

You felt my your. Your foxy lips are wet. “Do you feel good in the library?”

I felt your good. “Yes, I feel good in your library.”