Our House(20)

Yes, I did wonder if it was going to be difficult to co-exist in this way, to scrupulously separate all those mundane elements we’d shared for so long (we each had our designated kitchen cupboard space for groceries, like students!). There would be times when it felt petty, beneath us somehow, and others when it struck me as deeply, profoundly sad. But I didn’t allow myself to think about that on the first night. I certainly didn’t allow myself to cry. I just cleaned my teeth, washed my face, changed into pyjamas, pottered as if in a hotel room. When I got into bed, I fell asleep straight away, though I’d expected to lie awake all night.

The next day, I FaceTimed the boys in the lull between their swimming lesson and the birthday party they were attending at a city farm. They were bickering about who had been the first to pick llamas as his favourite animal, because it was against the law that they should choose the same. That second night, I went to visit my parents in Kingston and told myself that it was too late to head back to Alder Rise on the train, that I should save the taxi fare and stay over.

If you had told me then that in a few months’ time I’d be moving back in with Mum and Dad semi-permanently, I would have thought you had lost your mind.


Bram, Word document

I surprised myself by liking the flat from the off, and not only because it was an escape from my mother’s place. Perhaps it was the knowledge that I would soon be back home for my rotation, but I didn’t feel lonely. I enjoyed its silent welcome, the fact that it demanded nothing of me. To my knowledge, the address had been distributed to no one but the utilities companies and it was a good feeling in 2016 to be uncontactable, off-grid.

It didn’t hurt that the car was back on Trinity Avenue and I could push that particular item of fucked-upness from my mind.

I was on my best behaviour now, ready to toe the line – however, wherever Fi chose to draw it. Okay, maybe later, when things got truly hellish, I indulged in the fantasy that we might get back together, that she’d save me from myself, once and for all, but for now I gained pleasure simply from knowing that the flat was something only the two of us shared. Even though it was the very space that facilitated our separation, I liked that we were the only people to breathe its air. In the beginning, at least, it felt like somewhere only we knew.


‘Fi’s Story’ > 00:51:18

The house had century-old sash windows, with beautiful watery imperfections in the original glass. The flat had state-of-the-art double glazing that I seem to remember was self-cleaning – not that I ever thought to notice.

The house had cornicing and ceiling roses and geometric floor tiles in rust and beige and a beautiful cobalt blue. The flat had cheap skirting and that laminate flooring that glows orange in artificial light.

The house had tall French doors leading to a stone terrace with weathered teak steamer chairs and potted Japanese maples. The flat had a balcony overlooking a busy approach road to the park that was disliked by locals for its constant congestion.

But none of it mattered. This was not a situation for direct comparison, it was a question of horses for courses.

Houses for spouses, as Alison put it.

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The second Friday, I invited Polly to come and keep me company. I’d been up to Milton Keynes for a meeting and had spent the homeward journey of signal failures and delays dreaming of my first glass of Prosecco (Prosecco was the elixir of the female community of Trinity Avenue; some among us wept when the newspapers warned of a shortage).

‘I don’t understand,’ she said, when we met at the main doors. ‘How on earth can you afford a flat here on top of the expenses of the house?’

‘Well, you know how being incredibly old means we don’t have a huge mortgage? At least not huge by current crazy standards.’ Old grievances on my sister’s part that I had bought a house back when prices were real-world had been laid to rest when our parents helped her with the deposit for her flat in Guildford, but there was still the occasional gripe.

As the lift delivered us to the second floor, it occurred to me there was no security camera. What happened if you got stuck? Who answered when the emergency button was used? There was no caretaker or concierge and I’d yet to make eye contact with any of the neighbours. Those I’d seen were young professionals, uninterested in interacting with a middle-aged crone like me.

I opened our door with the same sense of trepidation I’d felt the previous weekend and let Polly sweep in ahead of me.

‘It’s really cute, Fi. Wait, you’ve got a balcony as well?’

‘Yes, but it doesn’t get the sun and the road’s so noisy. Bram thinks there was some sort of affordable housing remit and this is one of those units.’

She laughed in scornful amusement. ‘So they’ve rented it to a couple who can already afford a massive house on Trinity Avenue? Hmm. Social housing policy at its most penetrating.’

‘Maybe Bram didn’t tell them that,’ I admitted. This was an element of doing things differently that I hadn’t anticipated: you weren’t quite sure if you were selling it to other people or apologizing for it.

She’d explored the flat’s remaining features in the time it took me to pour drinks and we settled in the two stiff little armchairs as if about to have an interview filmed. The upholstery, an insipid puddle-grey, was rough to the touch.

‘So how’s he handling it all?’ Polly asked.