Daisy Darker(8)

Four



30 October 2004 – 6 p.m.

Nana gathers us all together in the lounge – despite various protests – and the large room suddenly feels rather small. Without another word, we resume the seats we sat in when I was a child. I guess knowing your place in your family is like some sort of muscle memory, and not something you forget. It’s so quiet now that I can hear the clocks ticking in the hallway. All eighty of them. And it already feels as though this is going to be a very long night.

‘I know you all want to get unpacked and freshen up, and we have so much catching up to do,’ Nana says with an ironic smile, ‘but I found some old home movies that I wanted to share with you this weekend. I thought this one might help break the ice. Or perhaps just melt it a little? Rose, will you pop this in the player? You know I’m allergic to technology.’

Rose takes a battered-looking VHS tape from Nana’s hands. I think the two women wink at each other, but maybe I imagined it. I can see that there is a whole row of old videos on the shelf behind them, which I’m quite certain I’ve never seen before. It used to be filled with books like all the other shelves in this room. Each of the VHS tapes has a white sticky label, and dates written in swirly handwriting: 1975 to 1988.

When the TV set – which I suspect might be older than me – comes to life, the whole room stares at my mother, because it’s her face on the screen and she’s wearing a wedding dress. The footage must be over thirty years old. The picture is a little grainy and there’s no sound, but she is breathtakingly beautiful. I watch, transfixed like the others, as a grandfather I never met walks her down a church aisle I’ve never seen, to stand side by side with my dad. He’s wearing a flared suit and has 1970s hair. He looks so young and happy. They both do.

‘This was originally filmed on my old Super 8,’ Dad says, with a smile that is so unfamiliar he looks like a different man. ‘I remember transferring it to VHS and thinking that would be the last advance in home entertainment. I suppose nothing lasts forever,’ he says, leaning forward in his chair, and sounding whimsical. He glances at my mother, but she is too busy staring at herself on the screen to notice.

My parents, Frank and Nancy, met at university. She was in her first year, he was in his last. Their friends nicknamed them ‘The Sinatras’, and like their famous counterparts, they were doomed almost from the start. Frank and Nancy were both in the amateur dramatics society. My father arranged the music, and my mother arranged the rest of their lives by getting pregnant when she was nineteen. You’d never know it, but Rose is in this home movie too, disguised as a tiny bump and hidden by a cleverly designed wedding dress. Nancy never graduated. They got married as soon as they found out she was pregnant – because apparently that’s what people did back then – and moved in with Nana here at Seaglass, until Dad had saved enough money for a place of their own. I think my parents thought they were happy for a while. She stole his joy and he stole her sorrow, and they balanced each other’s emotional books that way for years. London dragged them away from the sea, music dragged him away from her, and by the time I arrived on the scene, they were strangers who just happened to be married.

‘I found a whole box of home movies like this up in the attic. Family Christmases at Seaglass, birthdays, summer holidays . . . I haven’t had time to watch them all yet, and thought it might be something nice for us to do together,’ says Nana. ‘The world we live in today is a little too careless with its memories. I hoped seeing ourselves as we were might remind us who we are.’

The wedding video doesn’t last any more than three or four minutes – I guess film was expensive in those days, and people had to be a bit more picky about which moments of their lives they wanted to remember. It ends with a shot of my parents on the church steps. I recognize Nana in the background, but none of the other smiling faces. The friends throwing confetti seem to have morphed into strangers too over the years, fading from their lives like their love. The screen stops on a freeze-frame of my parents smiling at each other over thirty years ago. I look at them now and wonder where the love went.

‘I’m going to go and unpack,’ Dad announces, standing up.

‘Where? There aren’t enough bedrooms,’ Nancy says, without looking at him.

‘I’ll sleep in the music room down here.’

‘Good.’

He leaves the lounge and none of us know what to say. My father has always held his feelings hostage. His inability – or unwillingness – to express himself seemed to make my mother voice her own feelings on any subject twice as loud and twice as often. It was as though Dad could only communicate through his music, which is why the soundtrack of our childhood was filled with endless angry and melancholy compositions being played on his piano.

‘You looked beautiful in the video, Nancy,’ says Trixie. Nobody would dare call my mother grandma. We weren’t even allowed to call her mum. Only Nancy. My niece meant it as a compliment, but the rest of us know my mother well enough to realize that the past tense will be taken as an insult.

‘I think I might get a little fresh air. Check on my garden,’ Nancy says.

None of us mention that it is technically Nana’s garden, or that the sky has already swallowed the last of the sun. It’s dark outside and has been for some time. But Nancy is like a black-and-white movie actress, making a dramatic exit from a scene she never wanted to star in as she leaves the room. The rest of us sit in an awkward silence we are well acquainted with for a little while longer. Rose looks the most uncomfortable. She can sense our parents are gearing up for a fight. She was old enough when they got divorced to remember how bad things can get between them. Pride rewrites the story of who left who in my parents’ heads, and blame is something they’ve always refused to share. It isn’t long before we all quietly retreat to our own corners of Seaglass. Not because the show is over, but because we fear it is about to begin, and maybe we all need to rehearse our lines.